Community of Women Supporting Each Other

Supportive community for veteran wives and partners.

Find strength in shared experiences and unwavering support.

Connect with a sisterhood of women who understand your journey and stand beside you.

Join a Community That Walks This Path With You

Each new chapter is an opportunity for growth, connection, and new beginnings.  Whether it is parenting, managing finances, or adjusting to new routines, you do not have to navigate it alone.

With a supportive community beside you, you have the strength to build a future filled with hope and connection.

Find your community of strong supportive women
Community Open Arms
Veteran wives & partners

We don’t have the same blood, but we share the same stories

Some bonds go beyond family. They are built through shared experiences, unwavering support, and the unspoken understanding that comes from walking a similar path.

Your story is part of a greater sisterhood. Through shared experiences, understanding and support you will find a connection that reminds you that you are never alone.

Talk to Someone Who’s Been There

You are not alone. Reach out today

Call us between 9 AM and 6 PM to connect, whether you’re seeking sisterhood or support. If your family is in crisis, we’re here to help. For emergencies and after hours, please dial 911.

(805) 900-3540
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Get Connected to Resources and Support

Fill out this form to share your needs and we will connect you with the right resources and support.

Our Services

Food Assistance

Emergency Shelter & Services

Utility Assistance

 Utility Assistance

Community Organizations
& Referrals

Real women share their stories

Together, these women are supporting their families, uplifting one another, and proving the power of community.

My 7-year-old son now has a friend whose dad is a veteran. Hearts of Armor has given our kids other friends like them. They get that life is different, but not wrong, just different.

Violet

Veterans are different. They just are. People judge what they don’t understand. I can’t tell you how much I need these women in my life. They don’t judge me or my veteran. They love me and they love him. We are family.

Jen

I was hesitant about the smiles and laughter with the women. Being honest, I thought it was fake. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I have found a sisterhood of women that I never knew could exist.

Tanya

Help us support veteran spouses and families

This work cannot be done without the help of our community. Together we can support veteran families who have already given so much.

Volunteer with Hearts of Armor

Volunteer to Help

Your time and skills are invaluable as we plan community gatherings, work through administrative tasks, and hone our outreach efforts.

Donate to Hearts of Armor

Donate to Hearts of Armor

Your financial or in-kind donation connects struggling veteran families with vital counseling, help with bills, and supportive community gatherings.

Women supporting each other.

Find Strength in Connection

We know your story because we’ve lived it. Connect with the community that can help you find solid ground again.